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11.17.2022

HAPPY QUEPSIVERSARY TO THE FINE BLACK MEN OF OMEGA PSI PHI FRATERNITY - STILL FINE AT 111 YEARS!!

By Gloria DULAN-Wilson

Hello All!

 

Today is a special day in history - November 17, 1911 was the founding of the OMEGA PSI PHI Fraternity on the Campus of Howard University in Washington, DC.  


 

I am giving a personal shout out to my    QUE PSI PHI Brothers wherever you are, whoever you are, whatever you're doing or whatever you've done!

There is only ONE!!

I celebrate the Men of Omega!  

111 YEARS LOOK GREAT ON YOU!! 




NOW THAT YOU KNOW 

WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT IT?

 

Stay Blessed & 

ECLECTICALLY BLACK 


Gloria DULAN-Wilson


 

STAY BLESSED

1.23.2018

THE PAIN OF LOSING LES: Mourning and Celebrating the Memory of Leslie Wyche - Our Mayor of Harlem

By Gloria Dulan-Wilson

Hello All:

You never know what the day will bring - and today is one of those days that I am reminded that everything's in God's Hands.   I have to admit that I'm in a great deal of pain and shock at this moment.  I just recently learned of the passing of my brother/friend Little Willie Kgositsile, the South African Poet Laureate and a lifetime friend, and was in the process of making a spiritual farewell to him, that I got the news from my brother/friend Zach Husser telling me that Leslie Wyche had made his transition to the realm of Ancestor/Angel as well.   That news tore through me like a knife.  I found myself crying, to the point of speechlessness.  And I guess I've been somewhat in a state of shock since then, having flashbacks to the first day I met Leslie - whom I used to call Mr. Bon Vivant (Mr.  Good Life), because of his irrepressible energy and friendship. 

MAYOR OF HARLEM & MR. BON VIVANT - LESLIE WYCHE

 And as write this, I'm sure all of us who knew and loved (love) Leslie all have our own favorite Leslie Wyche stories, remembrances and experiences.  There was definitely nothing bland about Leslie.  Ordinary was not in his DNA.  He stood out no matter where he was, or what was going on, whether he intended to or not. He basically left an indelible impression on everyone he met - and if not, it was more than likely that the individual was probably dead from the neck up.  How do you get over a 30 plus year friendship with a brother who was quite definitely a force of nature? The answer is -you don't!


I am a firm believer in synchronicity.   I had just returned to New York after having been in California for over 9 years, and there was a major shift in everything - friends had moved, the City had changed considerably, having been traumatized by a major (deliberate) economic downturn.   I had lost track of many of my friends - even the Apollo was closed!  I was kind of like a fish out of water.  In fact,  I didn't even live in Harlem,  I was in Riverdale, where the possibility of coming across a friend on the sidewalk was somewhere between slim and none.    It was June 30, 1985. I was trying to get back into the rhythm of Harlem, and  had no idea what was happening.  I had been hearing about the Jackie Robinson Foundation's Afternoon of Jazz on WBLS,  which was being held in Norwalk Connecticut, hosted by Rachel Robinson, widow of the baseball great; and decided to take a chance and check it out.   Being  totally out of the loop for 9 years, I didn't have anyone to go to the event with me, and decided to go solo. I had polled some of my newly made friends, most of whom said they were not going, because it was little more than a fashion show. But I was determined to make it to Norwalk, CT.   When I got on the  Metro North, I was informed it only took me to Norwalk, CT,  but not to the exact location of the event. There additional form of transportation that I would have to take. I admit that I was apprehensive (and most of my New York buddies know that I'm rarely, if ever apprehensive about anything), but I went on anyway. 

As I settled myself on the train and waited for it to pull of, this guy gets on with all kinds of paraphernalia – in a shopping cart. Blankets, food, portable radio – he was loaded down!!  And he was headed directly for the vacant seat next to me. It was Leslie Wyche!  I looked around.  There were other vacant seats; but he seemed determined to sit in the one next to mine.   He immediately launched into a conversation as if we had known each other all our lives.  I remember looking at him initially like he had two heads and a tail, for a hot minute.  But as I began to concentrate on his conversation,  and his friendly manner, I realized that he wasn't trying to “hit” on me.  He looked around me, he noticed that I didn't have any food or a blanket and asked, "Is that all you brought with you?" - I just had a shoulder bag, and was wearing a large brimmed hat.   When I said, "Yes, why?"  He then said, "Oh, you're meeting somewhere there."  And I responded, "No.  It's my first time going."  He looked at my high heels and said, "You do know this is a picnic, right?" in that sonorous voice of his.   And when  told him I thought it was a jazz concert, he laughed and explained that it was not going to be concert with seats; instead it was a grand picnic with folks bringing their own food and blankets, and listening to some of the greatest jazz artists while networking and partying together. In the back of my mind I was trying to decide whether I should turn around and go back;  concerned that once I got there how I was going to get from the train to the event itself.  When  I expressed my misgivings to him, Leslie  put my mind at ease, took charge, and told me not to worry.   He pointed out the yellow school buses that served as shuttles to and from the concert. As we got on the bus, headed for the concert, he invited me to hang with the Ques, his frat brothers, who, he said, had more than enough food to spare and to share (now you know, that as a Delta, being invited to hang with Ques was like being invited to heaven).   We talked all the way to Norwalk and I felt I had known this brother all my life.  We had a blast, and it was the beginning of a long and wonderful friendship.  As a result,  I was also introduced to the brothers of Xi Phi and Kappa Omicron chapters of Omega as well as connecting with Sorors of the New York Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta.  (Which was another great thing I ascertained about Leslie immediately - he knew everyone, and everyone knew and loved him.  He had no compunction about putting people of like minds and interests together). 

That was 33 years ago - and I can say that Leslie has that our friendship has remained strong throughout all those years.

So when they say that there is no such thing as loss in life, I have to differ with them -  the loss of Leslie Wyche  on this plane of action is very painful to me.   When I learned from our friend,  Zach Husser, told me he had gone into Montifiore hospital for a “procedure” from which he did not recover and had made his transition to the realm of Ancestor/Angell, tears came rushing forth so fast, I had to hang up and get myself together. Or at least try to get myself together. And I admit I haven't done so, quite yet.

It's taken me a couple of days to absorb the finality of it all. To me, and to most of us who knew and loved him, he will always be  affectionately known as the the “Mayor of Harlem.”  Leslie was probably just over 5'8”, but he was a gigantic personality. He was a spirit unto himself. Whenever he entered the room, regardless of the occasion, you knew Leslie was there. The entire tenor of the room suddenly brightened.  How many of us remember his famous, “Hello, I'm Berry Gordy.” Leslie admired the great genius and founder of Motown and likened himself unto him. So bold was he in that belief that he resembled the great Motown Mogul,  that when Berry Gordy was honored in New York by the NNPA (National Newspaper Publishers Association), Leslie walked up to him and greeted him by saying he was his twin. They took several pictures together, with Leslie putting on his imitation Berry Gordy smile - he walked on a cloud for quite some time after have met him. (Of course the two looked nothing alike, but you couldn't tell Leslie that - LOL).  Leslie was always the resilient, bounce back from anything spirt we all knew and loved He was like our own ambassador of Good Will and fun.


There was no event that Leslie could not get into; and not an event that Leslie missed, if it had any significance. He was either integrally involved in the planning of the event, or the world's greatest “gatecrasher.”  Leslie was a  welcome presence at the Black and Puerto Rican Caucus in Albany New York, as well as at the Congressional Black Caucus in Washington, DC. He attended Rev. Jesse Jackson's Wall Street Project (Omega Frat Brother) and Rev. Al Sharpton's National Action Network conference. He was involved in programs that were integral in helping Black youth enter college, including the Black College Tour sponsored by Omega Psi Phi Fraternity – something my son and daughter both participated in – which made it possible for hundreds of Harlem youth to attend college, obtain scholarships, and make intelligent decisions about their choice of majors. Leslie worked with ConEd in helping hundreds make career choices via their annual outreach program.

I don't think a party got started right if Leslie wasn't there. And when he entered the room he made sure you knew he was there.

I remember when Leslie first assumed the title of Mayor of Harlem, and a great deal of controversy arose because another friend, DeLuis Blakely, had also been accorded that title. All of a sudden my phone was blowing up between the two of them asking me to write an article endorsing them as the rightful Mayor. I knew them both well, loved them as friends each in their own right – but now I was caught between a rock and hard place – so I deflected by giving them both accolades, and ended by saying that Leslie had become more popularly recognized as the Mayor of Harlem. Yeah, it was a cop out, but I tend to like to keep my friends friends. In the long run, Leslie was the clear victor in the dispute, and lived up to the accolade in every sense of the word.

Leslie worked with the Summer Youth Employment Program (SYEP) and helped my son, Rais, get his first job working at the Statue of Liberty.  Not waiting til the last minute, each Spring, prior to the summer vacation period, he would  begin reaching out to the community and the schools to get their recommendations for young people for the many job opportunities that were provided through the program. He was very diligent in making sure that Harlem youth had ample opportunity for jobs placement, and followed up to make sure they were having a positive work experience.  

He was a proud graduate of Edward Waters College, in Florida (I admit I had never heard of Edward Waters until I met him), and made sure that everyone was aware of this wonderful HBCU.  He carried their banner high at most HBCU forums; but I have to admit he was the only person I have ever met that actually attended there.

Everyone knew how much Leslie loved being an Omega, as well as being a member of the prestigious One Hundred Black Men of New York, and devoted his time to those two great organizations. I remember Leslie and Rev. Jesse Jackson taking photos together as Omega Brothers at 2016 Rainbow PUSH Wall Street Project Conference in NYC. He was so proud of being a member of Xi Phi Chapter, and was instrumental in coordinating their annually held Founders' Day Event. Leslie had an amazing voice and loved singing the Omega song. We partied together on many a Que Boat ride Black in the Day.  Before his knee surgery, Leslie loved showing off his agility in still  being able to execute the intricate Que Steps (There's nothing in the world like a Que step show - right?).  

And if he loved being an Omega Man, he loved even more exalting the contributions made by his fellow Frat brothers, contemporarily and historically.  This is an email I received from him three years ago: 

WE, WHO, EMBRACE, THE OMEGA PSI PHI FRATERNITY, INC. WILL NEVER FORGET!!! BROTHER CARTER G. WOODSON, THE FOUNDER OF BLACK HISTORY MONTH OR NOW, COMMONLY, KNOWN AS THE STUDY OF AFRICAN AMERICAN LIFE AND HISTORY. THANKS BROTHER  CARTER G, WOODSON, OMEGA MAN!!!
Sat, Dec 19, 2015 at 5:58 PM:  On this date December 19th in the year 1875 Carter Godwin Woodson was born in New Canton,Virginia...Woodson was an African-American historian, author, journalist and the founder of the Association for the Study of African American Life and History. Woodson was one of the first scholars to study African-American history. A founder of Journal of Negro History, Woodson has been cited as the father of black history...
After leaving Howard University because of differences with its president,Woodson devoted the rest of his life to historical research. He worked to preserve the history of African Americans and accumulated a collection of thousands of artifacts and publications. He noted that African-American contributions "were overlooked, ignored, and even suppressed by the writers of history textbooks and the teachers who use them.Race prejudice, he concluded, "is merely the logical result of tradition, the inevitable outcome of thorough instruction to the effect that the Negro has never contributed anything to the progress of mankind.
In 1926, Woodson pioneered the celebration of "Negro History Week"designated for the second week in February, to coincide with marking the birthdays of Abraham Lincoln and Frederick Douglass. The week of recognition became accepted and has been extended as the full month of February, now known as Black History Month.”

When I say that Les was my party buddy, memories go back to the wonderful days of Perks Fine Cuisine, our favorite gathering place. It was the Go To place in Harlem, and in New York City. People came from all over to rub elbows at Perks. We were the “Regulars,” always making a bee line immediately after work to be the first at the bar - which could easily become 10 people deep by 6:00PM  Of course they had the best Happy Hour, and the best food. 

With Hank Perkins standing at the end of the bar trading humorous "insults" with Leslie and the rest of us, it was our home away from home.   And whenever he entered the door, Leslie would make a grand entry, “The Mayor of Harlem is here!” And everybody would respond in Cheerslike manner, “LES!!”  Regardless of the occasion, Leslie was always dressed to impress.  He always looked like he just stepped out of GQ, or Ebony Male magazine, or was on the way to a fashion shoot. Always fashionable, always dignified, with that hint of humor and wit that kept him from being pretentious, you had to admire his good taste.  And Les could really rock a Derby or a Top Hat!  With his coat draped capelike across his shoulders in a rakish manner, a hint of the old days when brothers used to maintain a wardrobe.   When he entered the club, he would pause in the doorway for a minute or two as if surveying the room; but really to be noticed, and smile with a slight flourish, as if to say, "I have arrived!" I think one of the reasons Hank and Les got along so well, in addition to their mutual birthdays - was that they were both always well dressed, no matter what.  And of course, we were die-hard Knicks fans, making sure we were front and center to catch the games while also catching up on the events of the day. If you didn't love the Knicks, you were relegated to the other end of the bar. 



At one of Hank Perkins' owner of PERKS birthday parties. Dressed to impress, L-R The late Cuba Gooding, Jr., of the singing group, The Main Ingredients, Roy Ayers, Perk (Hank Perkins) and Leslie Wyche, Mayor of Harlem celebrating their joint birthdays.



Hank Perkins and Les shared the same birthdate, April 23rd. Perk would have a massive birthday celebration each year, and of course Les would celebrate his there at the same time – a sort of joint venture. Between Hank Perkins and Leslie Wyche, it was impossible to have a bad time.  We would party from one end of the club to the other, generally spilling over to the sidewalk, and closing well after the normal 4:00 AM New York closing time. 

When  I called Perk  to inform him of Leslie's transition, he was very upset, and started recalling all the great times they had together.  As one of Perks' regulars, he was a fixture at the club, which included hosting events and political forums there.   Like most Black New Yorkers, Leslie had an active nightclub life and could party from one end of Manhattan to the other. He was known for being the last to leave the party or the club, often emerging just before sun up, to go home change into corporate attire and report to work on time. (Actually, we all were kind of guilty of that. We balanced work and party in a very precarious manner, and interlaced it with community service. We were the “in crowd”).  And if we were the In Crowd, Perks was our In Place, and Leslie, Mayor of Harlem, considered it his headquarters. 

I was going through the many correspondences I had from Leslie over the years. He loved my Blog and would often respond to something I had written. Or he would update me about an event that he felt should be highlighted in my Event Alert Column such as volunteering for Thanksgiving dinner for needy Harlem residents; opportunities for HBCU graduates; or events and issues of concern to Black people, such as the one he sent me after the massacre that took place in South Carolina:

(NOTE: Les always corresponded in All-CAPs). DEAR PAN HELLENIC MEMBERS: WE NEED TO SHOW OUR UNITY AND/OR SOLIDARITY IN THE WAKE OF THE UNFORTUNATE, SHOOTING AND/OR KILLING SOUTH CAROLINA Inbox Leslie WycheFri, Jun 19, 2015 at 2:04 PMTo: Gloria Dulan-Wilson , | DEAR PAN HEL MEMBERS: WE NEED TO SHOW OUR SOLIDARITY IN THE WAKE OF THE SOUTH CAROLINA MASSACRE IN CHARLESTON, SOUTH CAROLINA.  THE UNFORTUNATE, KILLING OF THE REVERENT AND NINE (9) MEMBER OF  HIS CHURCH, WAS A MEMBER OF ALPHA PHI ALPHA FRATERNITY, INC.  I AM, SUGGESTING, THAT, WE COME TOGETHER IN MEET AND/OR SHOW OUR SOLIDARITY AT THE HARLEM STATE OFFICE BUILDING, 163 WEST 125TH STREET (THE CORNER OF 125TH STREET AND ADAM CLAYTON POWELL, BLVD.) PERHAPS, WE COULD, DEMONSTRATE AT THE ADAM CLAYTON POWELL, JR. STATE OFFICE BUILDING WITN THE ASSISTANCE OF CONGRESSMAN CHARLES RANGEL'S OFFICE AND COUNCILMAN INEZ DICKENS, STATE SENATOR BILL PERKINS AND ASSEMBLYMAN KEITH WRIGHT.
PLEASE CALL ME AND/OR EMAIL ME AT: WYCHE.LES@GMAIL.COM 


Between 2011 and 2016 I guess I received over nearly 300 emails from Les - but then again, he probably received triple that amount from me.  Reading through them the other evening brought about some bitter sweet memories of a long standing 33-year Brother/Sister Friendship, comradeship.  One that I will treasure all the more.




As I write this, I'm sure that by now Leslie has already established himself as the new Mayor of the Ancestor/Angels. I can see him walking around greeting everyone with the wave of his hand and that engaging smile of his. Tipping his hat, cane in hand with signature gloves, and his unique sartorial flair – coat draped over his shoulders, impeccably dressed, strolling through, completely at home in his new realm, confident that no one can challenge him in his role.  He is being joined by three other friends - Rev. Wyatt T. Walker,  Little Willie Kgositsile and Hugh Masakela.  There is bound to be a lot of celebration tonight, as three of the Finest Black Men take their place in the pantheon of those who go before us, while leaving so many wonderful memories and examples for us to treasure and follow.

The pain of losing Leslie Wyche will linger for a long time, only made bittersweet by remembering all the wonderful times we shared while he was here among us.
But if losing Leslie Wyche is painful, it has been rendered even more painful at the news that his nuclear family (siblings) has not recognized the fact that we loved him as much as they did, according to his Fraternity Brothers of Omega Psi Phi Fraternity.    There are special rites of passage that are to be performed upon the passing of a Brother.  This tradition is more than a century old, and should not be denied him.  Also,  while his New York/Harlem family are gathered and ready to pay homage to him, including his Omega Brothers, Delta Sisters and members of the Panhellenic community, as well as the rest of us in Harlem who knew, loved and worked side by side with him for more than 50 years, I have been informed that his sisters apparently are ether unaware, or unconcerned about how we feel.  WE know they are in pain at the loss of their brother - Les was such a wonderful person; but we want them to know that we are equally suffering the loss of this wonderful brother, and want to honor him now.  A memorial service at a later deprives us of the opportunity to show our love and pay our respects and bid our final farewell in real time.  Perhaps if they took a look at the responses on FaceBook and in the Media, they'd have a better understanding of how much love we feel, and how much pain we too are suffering and how much he means to New York in general, Harlem in particular, and us personally.  Leslie would definitely want to go out in a flourish, as was his style, and he would most certainly wish to have the Omega-Omega service performed as he makes his transition to the realm of Ancestor/Angel.

And, while I have never met them, I am personally appealing to his sisters to please allow us to work with them and honor their brother,  this Fine Black Man now, in the true spirit and celebration he would have wanted.  Now, in real time, rather than postpone it until a later date.  We know that funeral services are as much for the living as for those who have made their transition, and we the living need to be able to come together and bid farewell in classic, elegant Leslie Style.  A brother whom we all loved dearly and will treasure for ever.

Farewell to BROTHER/FRIEND LESLIE WYCHE 

Rest in Power

Stay Blessed & 
ECLECTICALLY BLACK
Gloria
















6.05.2017

iBuyBlack Discount Card - a New Way to Keep the Dollars in the Community - Hosts First KickOff Meeting

By Gloria Dulan-Wilson

Hello All:

On Saturday, May 20, 2017 PCOL held the first community meeting for the iBuyBlack Discount card, bringing together business owners, consumers, activists, artists and investors from all over Philly. The concept is from the Philadelphia Council of Leaders (PCOL), who have been seeking means by which Black businesses and Black consumers can mutually support each other, and keep the dollars circulating in the community.  

A special discount card that can be purchased either in person, online, or via Facebook is currently good at 250 Black owned businesses, and growing, throughout Philadelphia. www.ibuyblack.org

Since that kick off meeting, the Philadelphia Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Inc, has voted to wholeheartedly support the iBuyBlack campaign, and will make an initial purchase of 50 cards to sell, with individual Sorors likewise making their own individual purchases as well.  Additionally, the Sorority has several members who are entrepreneurs, who will likewise become members and offer their services at the 10% discount rate.  
 www.ibuyblack.org








BROTHER ALI Presides over the IBuyBlack Community Meeting

Brother Ali, who presided over the event, made a statement that resonated throughout the entire meeting, and served as a wake up call for all the participants: “Now you know the most effective boycott in the history of the United States has been the boycott of Black Owned Businesses by Black people. Right?” The concept was a total departure from the usual “blame whitey” attitudes we have become accustomed to espousing.
 
Brother Rahim Islam, of Universal Companies, stated: “PCOL is taking a stand by saying,  'You know what, talking is not going to do it, wishing is not going to do it; praying is not going to do it - though it can help. No question, putting prayers out there can kind of settle the anxiety; but it's going to take some hard work.  And it's going to take some behavioral changes that we must do as a people, individually - starting with ourselves first, and moving out. And then affecting or impacting those who are around us.  There's no simple other way to do it.  There's no magic way to do it.”  While others compared the efforts to a drop in the ocean, Kenny Gamble saw it as the beginning of a tsunami.

Per Brother Ali, “The iBuyBlack Campaign is a grass roots campaign.  We are bringing it to the community to give them details on the campaign, the discount card, our vision of what the impact will be, and take it back to your various organizations, business institutions and other groups that you may belong to.”

According to Ali, It started In October of 2016, when Rev. Allyn Waller (Enon Tabernacle Baptist Church) called for a meeting of Black men and about 800 men showed up from all across the city, various religious denominations. He had three things he was trying to accomplish: 
1:  End violence in our communities.  He has been working with police commissioner Ross, and has identified fifteen hot spots in the city where most of the violence occurred.
2: Protect voters from harassment. “Right before the "election" and there had been some rumblings about some caucasians coming to intimidate Black voters.  We got a group of men together to monitor every polling place in Philadelphia to make sure that no intimidation was going to take place. 
3:  Supporting Black owned businesses. 

Rev. Waller wanted to set up an initiative to encourage especially the Black consumers, so that, instead of spending all your money with the mainline establishments, spend some of it with Black owned businesses; and not just for the Christmas season, but 365 days a year.




 www.ibuyblack.org




Brother Michael Rashid, the retired CEO of Amerihealth Corporation who took Amerihealth from a one billion dollar corporation to a four billion corporation during his tenure, took the lead for PCOL and became the project manager for the IBuyBlack Campaign.   


Brother Michael Rashid goes over the goals and oboetives of the iBuyBlack initiative and Card

Major meetings were held in November to standing room crowds. Speakers included Rev. Waller, Kenny Gamble, Rahim Islam, Mike Rashid, Harold Epps from the City of Philadelphia, among others. According to Brother Ali, “In January 2017, Brother Gary Shephard, had just returned from Detroit, MI, where they had developed a discount card for businesses. You pay $10.00, make a purchase and get a 10% discount.   If you use the card two or three times, with the discounts you received, the card has more than paid for itself. So we looked at it and said we think we can do that right here in Philadelphia. So that was the birth of the iBuyBlack Discount Card.  And that's how we started it.” 

PCOL has a Cultural Committee that is responsible for cultural activities that teach the sophistication of African and African American cultures in the Philadelphia area. “40 years ago we had the Black Family Reunion, African and African American Parades; and all of those cultural things in the Black community.  We actually owned the summer.  Dr. Edward Robinson taught Culture is the glue that keeps the community together and gives the children something positive to look to.  But why aren't those events here now?  Why are they gone?  why did they die in the first place?  They had died out was because they were dependent on  outside funders like Proctor and Gamble, Pepsi Cola and Coka Cola. As soon as they had a bad fourth quarter, and their sales started to dip, and started cutting back; the first thing they cut out was our stuff!” Ali stated. “In order to bring these programs back, we have to fund these programs ourselves, so we don't have to depend on anybody but God, the Ancestors and the Black Community.  There are 665,000 Black people in the city - enough people and resources in our own community. Last year we produced our first Annual Juneteenth Event with six weeks' notice; attracted over 5,000 people right in the heart of downtown Philadelphia!! It was a tremendous success.  And we are going to do it again on June 17th.”

On September 9, 2017, they are bringing back the Black Family Reunion in honor of Barbara Daniel Cox, a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Inc,  who died last year. The discount card is a way of raising funds to produce money to fund those events. 



According to Brother Ali, the Discount Card does three things: 1) It encourages our people to spend more money with Black-owned businesses.  2) It alerts our people to where the Black-owned businesses are.  3) The proceeds from the sales of the cards goes to fund the cultural activities here in Philadelphia.  So it's a very, very simple process.

Per Michael Rashid:   The goal, is to sell 30 thousand cards; register 1,000 businesses in our system; and to increase the iBuyBlack coalitional organizations from where it is now to 100 by August 2019. 

Michael Rashid stated that until that morning, the most effective boycott was the bus boycott led by Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr. in Alabama. “But today the most effective boycott in the history of this country has been the boycott of our people against our own businesses.  That's something to think about. This is a boycott that's not on television.  The news does not cover this boycott.   As Rahim said, it's already in here.  It's already in here.  As my Brothers from the Nation of Islam would say, we're the only people who will spend 90% of our time talking about the white man is the cause of all our problems.  And then we turn around and spend 95% of our dollars with him.  So it just makes no sense at all,” he stated.  

In the libation this morning, one of the people that the sister mentioned was Denmark Vesey. That's  the power and the fear that the other side has of us getting together.  Now we don't have to go kill nobody. All we have to do is break that boycott!   Stop the boycott!  Stop the boycott that we have on ourselves of our own people's businesses,”  he concluded.

Mr. Rashid took a straw poll of those who had used the card so far to find out what their experiences had been thus far:

Brother Kofi: "I used my card at the Smart Ali on Ogontz Avenue.  I went there, had the food. I loved the food, and got my card and it arrived in one week.  Got some fish and grits; my brother and I have a rental property, and we needed a carpenter who could fix the apartment and to be able to do some windows.  I got on there; I looked at the applications; I looked at the information - i punched it in and called the guy.  I'm meeting him next week and he's going to give an estimate on the work.  And I used my discount card at 3rd Floor Media.  They are going to tell you their own story.  We just finished doing a voice over for the historic overview of Juneteenth as part of the CD.”

Testimonial 2: “With this card, I just walked into Dwight's Barbecue. He had never heard of the card, but decided to honor it and he gave me a 10% discount.”

Highlighting the benefits of the card, Michael Rashid stated, “The card lasts forever.  Because what we're trying to do is break the boycott.  We want to get into our minds that our people have all these things as well; and definitely by doing so we can break the boycott.” 


He elicited statements from businesses who accept the card: 

Sherrine Stewart with Ergo Travel stated, “I have a travel agency, and I actually heard about iBuyBlack through I Love BOB - I Love Black Owned Businesses.  So I joined and I'm ready, and I use my card myself.”

Valerie Lloyd: “We're consultants and we plan events - social and corporate events.  And I came about it - the iBuyBlack Card because I'm on the cultural committee and I'm working on it now.”

Dr. Karen James.  "My business is wholistic health cafe -  I found out through Earl Harvey.  And it was a family owned business.  My daughter's a chef.  She makes wonderful healthy meals.  My husband is certified in gourmet teas for the tea lovers; and I'm certified in homeopathic medicine.  So we have workshops, we serve meals - so come out and visit us.”

Walt Watson of Money Matters on WURD -  that's why I say this is good.  I was born and raised in North Philly - my life is everything you put up on the board - that's my life.  And I'm here and I'm going to support it.  I'm going to sign my business up.  I'm probably one of the only African American that is a branch manager of a brokerage firm - The Atlantic Wealth Group.  The first and third Sunday each month, and my name is Walt Watson.  I'm like a work horse, so public speaking is not my thing.  But I will talk with anybody one-on-one all day long.”  

Brianna - of Miss Black Genez - "It's about young Black women appreciating their natural beauty - and loving themselves.  And also about starting young people to think about and build their own business plan.  Our business plan; our knowledge topic and also our talent (are) based on building one's confidence, and also an immune system for Black people, because we don't have a protective immune system.  And a drug free culture. We're trying to clean up everything.  So this is very powerful." 

Andrea Jackson, CEO of AMJ Entertainment - Provides entertainment.  "Mr. Gamble was at an event where my artists were performing, honoring the original Ebony.  That was my band, and my artists singing.  (Kenny - they were very good); and I would love to take a hand full - a box of your brochures and distribute them at our events.  And I'm big on social media, and I've already started spreading your website on social media, and I will continue to do that."

Andrea Jackson and Sister who conducted opening libations 


So it is evident that the iBuyBlack Card resonates with businesses and resonates with people who have the card. 
  
Our goal is a couple of ways to break the boycott.  Our goal is to bring new customers to African American businesses.  And by doing so, it will bring more money, more customers to African American businesses.  The ultimate goal is to create jobs and grow the Black business community.  That is what we're trying to do.  It costs money to produce the card; advertise and to do all the things that we're trying to do.  We have a website.  That's why the card costs $10.00 This is not anybody's private business.  It's to put Black businesses in our community in a better position.  We think that if we're successful, there's going to be greater employment for our community.  80% of the new jobs created in America are created by small businesses.  That's where the jobs are.  Created by small businesses. 

There are 19,000 businesses - African American businesses - in this city.  19,000 - what if we just had 10,000?  if we just spent 9% of our dollars with our own people, unemployment could be wiped out in the Black community.  Not 90%, just 9%. 

So, here's how it works: “You buy the card here today, or you can buy the card online, it's mailed in three days; customers get a discount of 15% first time out; there is the benefit of promotion - and businesses get new customers.” 

Michael Rashid's breakdown of the demographics made it clear: “In the METROPOLITAN PHILADELPHIA AREA THERE ARE ONE MILLION PLUS AFRICAN AMERICANS.   This is in our five county area.  19,000 African American businesses.  See they don't advertise this, because they don't want you to know the power that you have.  I'm telling you.  There are nationally 3,000+ faith based African American organizations.  200+ educational institutions.   250,000 African American professionals. The average spending is 25 billion dollars - but most of those monies are part of the boycott.  That's part of the boycott that we are doing to ourselves.  So Ali went over what our goals are.  30,000 cards; 1,000 businesses - expand our coalitions to 100 organizations.”  
He then queried the Black Greek organizations: “We got anybody from the Greek organizations here?  Ah!  The DELTAS!   AKA.  Omegas. The Kappas are in the house. Well thank you Greek organizations - we know you have the power.  We know that you're organized; and we know that if you put your mind to it, it will be done.  So we appreciate you.” As of the date of the meeting, Phily Alumnae Deltas have been apprised of the iBuyBlack program; Omegas are preparing to meet and join in purchasing and promulgating the card; Sam Adams of Kappa has pledged to purchase and/or sell 1000 cards; and AKA will be considering the card, as well. The card will be presented at the upcoming PanHellenic Council meeting for endorsement, purchase and support across the board. It was suggested that, for a small nominal additional fee, the cards be logoed for the various fraternities and sororities – which would both be a good marketing tool, as well as a way to see how effective it is among the Black Greek organizations.

He also emphasized that the card will appeal to consumers across the board, from high tech to no tech: “We are going to be very high tech, but not so much so  that we get too smart and forget about the people in our community - our grandmothers and our mothers - people, who just want to buy the card;hold the card in their hands and want a directory like the old telephone book.  We can't forget our people.  We can't get ahead of ourselves.  It's okay - we can come from all over the place.  And that's what we want to do.  We're working on decals and will have them very soon.”

At the Launch on April 13 at City Hall, a press person asked Mayor Kenney what he thought about IbuyBlack, and whether he thought it was “a racist thing, since they're doing it in your house at City Hall?”  And he looked at him like he was crazy, and said, "No.  I'm Irish, and the Irish people keep the money in the family.  Italians keep the money in the family.  The Jews keep the money in the family." The Mayor bought a card on the spot. they're supporting us in various ways, and you'll hear about it in the months ahead.  


Brother Kenny Gamble addresses the IBuyBlack Community Meeting (R)
LR: Brother Kofi, organizer of Junteenth, Michael Rashid, Brother Ali 

So we set up a website; we designed and produced our card, and to date, since the launch, we've sold 1500 cards; and growing everyday.  We have over 250 businesses on our website, and growing every day.  And you can buy a card online at www.ibuyblack.org

According to Michael Rashid, “The next steps develop our brand, and our business model.  Everything we do, we're going to continue to make it better and better and better.  We want to secure funding, and the talent that's going to execute this plan.  We're going to implement a media marketing campaign to build awareness.”  

In addition to WURD, other media outlets covering the morning's event included ECLECTICALLY BLACK NEWS BLOG, and the Sunday Sun. The Sunday Sun has been involved since the very beginning. Rashid also emphasized the need for word of mouth, stating, “That's the best!  And that's one thing we're going to ask you to do today - talk about it.  Talking - get the word out there   - put something in your calendar or DayTimer - every day I'm going to talk to somebody about IbuyBlack.  So we need to build awareness; we need to sell the card; we need to register businesses; and all of this will give us the groundwork to move to the next level.”  

So here's what we need from you: “Use the card Don't just let it stay in your wallet.  If you don't use the card, then the business is going to say - "Yeah, I heard about it, but it's not helping me out here."   Go to business you've never been to, and check them out! And tell them I heard about you through the iBuyBlack Discount Card.  And they'll see that this is a good thing for them. Meetings are a great way to spread the word.  If you can set up a meeting at your church, at your club, at your business, or whatever, we have people who can present this.  Earl Harvey is our lead distribution manager.  If you want to distribute the card, Earl can help you out with that.  Give us the information, and we can get that information to Earl.”  

Once a business owner signs up, he's on the website. Right now there are 23 restaurants on the website.  So the Name of the Business, Address, Phone number, what kind of business they're offering - it's right there on the website.  As we move on, we're going to be doing more than the website.  Put them on decals; put them on the media.” 
The issue of consistency was broached. A white man told one of the members. "You know what's wrong with you Black people?  You're good at sprinting; but you're terrible at the marathons.  You always got to be way out here, and y'all get way excited, but you don't have consistency.  And you don't stick to it."  And that's where we are right now.  We started this thing and we sprinted out of the gate.  We've sold 1500 cards and we've got 250 businesses.  Now, what's going to happen?  And there are a lot of people just sitting back, and I'm telling you! I'm telling you!  They sit back, "Yeah, I heard about this.  It ain't going to last."  Isn't that what they say?  Isn't that what you've heard?  It's going to die out.  Peter out.” 

He elicited advice from Kathy Hicks of the Sunday Sun, and a member of WURD radio, on how to stay in faith and keep charging, when things got tough.

Kathy Hicks, fiancee of the late Jerry Mondesire, founder of the Sunday Sun, stated, “I think this is a very important event  the Philadelphia Sunday Sun has been around for 23 years. We worked together.  And I've been dedicated - this is just a labor of love to keep it going in the community.  Making sure that the word gets out about the businesses; about what's happening in our communities that does not show up in the Philadelphia Inquirer, or the Daily News.  And if you have stories that you're interested in us sharing with the community - we love doing that. Gary Shepherd, who does our weekly, iBuyBlack Neighborhood Community event, goes to random Black owned businesses, takes a picture. He puts out the information about where they are; what they do and also adds a little snippet, or a mini-commercial - and this is free advertising.  But it also gets the word out as to what types of businesses we have in our communities.” 

Ms. Hicks continued, “It helps us!  The Jews do it.  The Asians do it.  The Latinos do it.  And we know how much they make even from us.  So we should do it.  We should do it for our people. And make sure that we are allowed to grow. .  Read the SUN, get the SUN, because it supports our community.  And again, it helps your information to get out.  So, if you have any questions, our number is 215.848.7864 - You can call. If there's information that you want in the paper, you have something going on with your business, and you want to promote it - give us a call.  But also, share the paper so that the people see that we support the IBuyBlack initiative.  And I hope you will do it also.”

Representative from WURD:  “We have to do better; we have to clean up our stores, we have to make the people who come through our doors want to come back.  Tell them to bring somebody with them; and you have to get rid of those lower expectations that you have.  I am in and out of businesses all week; and some of them I don't want to recognize - I can't.  I don't want them do advertise on our radio show.  And it's a shame - but we just have to do better.” She also announced we've just acquired an FM station - it's 9 I'm going to ask you to tune in on your computer, on your phone and listen.  We are the only Black talk radio station in the the state of Pennsylvania – one of the few in the country - and we give news and information to the African American community.  And it's not fake news."

GDW NOTE:  I was an account executive for The Black United Fund of New York, i see this is the approach in getting Black solidarity in terms of economic development across the board.  And I think it's wonderful.  And customer service training for these small businesses is essential;  because you can walk into a place and do a u-turn just by the tone of the voice and the attitude of some of our brothers and sisters.  But it's on both sides -  some of our consumers go in with negative attitudes as well; therefore we need to raise our expectations and raise their level of service at the same time. My late Uncle, Adolf Dulan,  was the on the board and co-founder of Recycling Black Dollars, in Los Angeles - so I think this is excellent  - GDW 

There are also I Buy Black T-shirts for sale, as well as free brochures that can be distributed or shared with businesses or friends.  "Feel free to take brochures, just don't take any that you're not going to pass out.  What we don't have today is food for you. We've got a lot of spirit, but we don't have any food."  A suggestion was made to do pot luck for the upcoming June 10th meeting.

In closing, Brother Ali stated,  "I want to give you the math of this.  This whole effort is based on five per cent of the population.  there is a psychological effect in the African American community, and everybody has to agree with this.  There is no way we came through four hundred years of terror and not be psychologically damaged.  Okay, so that's a given.  And we're going to stipulate the psychological damage in the Black community, and because of that, a lot of times when we start efforts  the first thought that comes to our minds is that, "Oh we can't do that." "This is going to peter out." "We've tried this before and it didn't work." or "We've tried this before, why you think it's going to work now?"  So what I want to say is that this whole concept is only based on five percent of the people participating - a critical mass."  

He then  used the example of the Million Man and Million Woman marches of 1995 and 1996 respectively to prove his point:   "So if we can get five per cent of the people's numbers, in any hundred of the people that you talk to, ninety five of them will say, "we're not interested."   We just want to work with the five who are interested.  Now if you don't think that that's correct, then I want you to go back to 1995 and 1996.  In 1995 there were 40 million Black people in the country (USA); half female, half male.  So that means that there were 20 million Black males in 1995.  Minister Farrakhan put out a call for a Million Black Men to show up at a Million Man March - right?  You've got 20 million Black men.  How many showed up?  Two Million 
showed up out of 20 million.   10% of the Black men showed up.  90% stayed home.  The following year, the Million Women March, right here in Philadelphia, and about a million women showed up. Right? That was about five per cent of the total Black females.  So you can say what you can do, with just that small percentage.  The reason I'm bringing this up is because I don't want you to get dismayed; I don't want you to give up.  The whole key to making this work is consistency.  So just being consistent, spread the word, just stay focused - then we can make this happen."  






Kenny Gamble wrapped up by stating,  "Well I enjoyed myself today - what about you?  And you know Ali is 100% right; this is not a joke.  Sometime we laugh, and you know - but this is no time for laughing.  And, I pray that you take it real serious.  And that you will live this concept and idea for the development of our community.  And as you look around the room, you don't see a lot of young people here.  You see a lot of old heads.  Men and women.  Old heads.  We used to be young once - but now we're old.  So let's take it serious."

He continued:  "It really is good to see you come out.  And this concept is really taking off and at the end of the day, I'm thinking, I might even write a song about this.  So we've got some good people we're standing on, like Sam Adams. He had a group called The Family of Leaders -  that's where this group, Philadelphia Council of Leaders,  evolved from.  And the Libations keep these people living.  Sam Adams lived to be 105 years old.  And he got up every day and went into his office to work on how do you make it better for Black people.  He created something called AFNA - The Foundation for Negro Affairs.    So this is a part of that idea, that spirit." 

Gamble related an incident with Mr. Adams:    "He showed me a picture one day.  Sam said, 'Look at this picture.' There were maybe about forty people in the picture - and they were on the steps of Harrisburg, the Capitol Building.  So he said, 'Tell me something about that picture.'  So I said looks like you all were up there protesting or something.  He said, 'Yep, but guess what, all those people in that picture are dead except for me.'"

"So I know that we've got pictures - I've got pictures of people, and everybody on there is dead, except for me.  There is a picture in my office, right now, where, when we did the Black Family Reunion, there was a picture of Harold Melvin, Georgie Woods, myself, and brother Roland Chambers, who used to play guitar with us.  I'm the only one living on that picture.  So it's not so much.  You can do anything you want to do.  I'm living proof of it.  Everybody told me you ain't going to make it man; you can't sing.  You can't do nothing; but I just kept going. And I kept going. And what I say now is yeah, keep right on going son.   So we can do anything you want to do.   And I expect I'm going to be here as much as I can, as long as I'm living.  I'm going to be here.  And I really appreciate working with all of you - especially Ali and Mike and Rahim and there's so many others out there that we can pull together to get this spirit - to get into this spirit.” 

Gamble later added: “Well I'll tell you one thing, if one thing that I took out of this meeting is that we need more meetings - as many meetings as we can get.  Because one of the things I heard out of this is that we need to have some classes.  So that these business owners will know how to deal with the public.  Business Ettiquette.  I tell you that the biggest things that happens with a lot of Black businesses is that the place needs to look clean; and smell good.  There are a lot of things - but we need to cut that off at the pass.”

Kenny Gamble with enthusiastic Grandmom and Granddaughter after iBuyBlack meeting
One grandmother brought her young granddaughter to the meeting stated,   “I brought a young person here  My Granddaughter.  I brought her for reasons, because I wanted her to know what is going on with the Blacks in the Black community - and I wanted her to understand why it was so important for me to be here.  I want her to be a part of it.  She didn't quite know about your background, so I had her Google you so she could understand who you are.  And I brought her here to meet you; because it starts here, you know.  It's important to me and my family as well as everyone in this room - and I want her to be able to understand and follow.”

"So, I'm glad you're here, young sister.   Okay - do you write songs?...   This is the beginning of a new generation.  Parents, grandparents are urged to bring their youth with them to the upcoming meetings - we are creating a legacy, and it starts in the home.  

The next meeting of the iBuyBlack Campaign will be Saturday, June 10, 2017.  Please check the website and the FaceBook pages for location and time.

NOW THAT YOU KNOW, WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO?

Stay Blessed & 
ECLECTICALLY BLACK 








Gloria